Service Matters

“Everybody can be great… because anybody can serve. You don’t have to have a college degree to serve. You don’t have to make your subject and verb agree to serve. You only need a heart full of grace. A soul generated by love.” – Martin Luther King, Jr.  
David and sons Rylie and Cole ring the bell for the Salvation Army

David and sons ring the bell for the Salvation Army

 

Service matters to the served…

As the Martin Luther King, Jr. holiday approaches, I am inspired by the personal way his statement has impacted my life.

My wife, my 2-year old, and my dog were evacuated just ahead of a massive fire in Southern California in 2003. Also evacuated were 80 students of a boarding school I was leading, 60 staff, their spouses, their children, and their pets.  Each of us had a pillow, and a change of clothes, maybe a few pictures, but not much more. The Salvation Army was there from the very beginning with three “hots and a cot” in a warehouse. When it became clear we were not going home right away, the Salvation Army put all 300 of us up at their very nice camp in Malibu – walking distance from the beach, laundry facilities, a pool, and actual beds! 

The fires threatened our town for 10 days, but we never seemed to wear out our welcome with the folks of the Salvation Army, who were always there with a cup of coffee and a smile. When the smoke cleared and we were allowed back up the mountain, thousands of homes had burned, but not one of our group lost their home, and the school was safe.

In my life before the fire, I had never needed help like that and I was touched by their service to me. When I was homeless and scared, they gathered me, my family and friends under their wings and fed us. Being on the receiving end of such giving has always reminded me that we need to help each other, and that small help and big help are both acts of greatness. The grace we were granted by the Salvation Army cannot be repaid, but their example to me can be paid forward to others.

Service matters to the server!

As a leader at Cherokee Creek Boys School, I am able to “pay it forward” by involving our students in service projects in our small community. In fact, learning to give is a core teaching at our school. Recently, several Cherokee Creek Boys School students sold hot dogs in front of the Seneca, SC Tractor Supply Co. store. Their sale provided the local Humane Society with 225 lbs. of pet food, two large dog houses, 26 pounds of cat litter, and many leashes, collars, brushes and treats. These middle school guys love to help the Humane Society, and we go regularly on weekends and help care for the animals.

Cherokee Creek students and staff raising funds for the Oconee Humane Society

Cherokee Creek students and staff raising funds for the Oconee Humane Society

After the hot dog sale, one of the students said, “I feel cool about myself when I help the animals.” Excitedly, another student said, “I like being a hero to the animals!” The truth is when we give to others we are practicing greatness. When we extend grace and love to others, it also fills our hearts. Author of Peter Pan, James M. Barrie said, “Those who bring sunshine into the lives of others cannot keep it from themselves”.

The “hands on” experience of helping at the Humane Society brings the boys tremendous satisfaction, peace and a joy that is not always a part of childhood these days.  When we extend grace and love to others, it also fills our hearts.    

Service matters to the served and to the server.  And “Everybody can be great… because anybody can serve.” The challenge for us is to go out and be great. Let your heart be filled with the joy that comes from giving!

David LePere is the executive director of Cherokee Creek Boys School, a therapeutic boarding school for middle-school boys, ages 11-15 in Westminster, SC.

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11 Responses to “Service Matters”

  1. Susie Pecuch says:

    Thanks David. At Cherokee Creek you are truly teaching and being good examples of what matters!

  2. Janine says:

    Love the blog. It is easy during the holiday season to think of the importance of giving. Nice reminder that it is also needed during the rest of the year as all. Hats off to the staff and boys who braved the cold to raise money for the shelter! I think it is wonderful that they did that. Janine

  3. Sid Edelman says:

    Well done!

  4. Linda Goddard says:

    Thank you to all at Cherokee Creek Boys School for a thoughtful message about how life-affirming service to others can be! I’m grateful for what you do.

    Blessings on your lives,
    Linda

  5. DLePere says:

    Remember when you were in middle school…whatever the teachers are doing…you wanted to do too! Kids of any age are a careful study of adults. It’s what we say and what we do that sticks! Thanks to all of you who support the work of Cherokee Creek, your words and actions are all very much appreciated!

  6. Kimball Thomas says:

    I think the fund raiser was a great idea.
    I love the Salvation Army too! That is some personal story. Thanks for sharing. Just go to show our personal relationships are lasting are long remembered after we are gone from this earth and material things probably wont be remebered by others.

  7. Christy Todd says:

    With everything going on in Haitti this story is all the more inspiring! Christy

  8. DLePere says:

    Our service has the potential to outlive our bodies. Thanks for bringing the idea of legacy into the conversation Kimball.

  9. DLePere says:

    There will be great need on that island for a long while to come. My thoughts and prayers are with the victims, survivors and people who are able to give aid in the aftermath of this disaster.

  10. DLePere says:

    You’re certainly welcome Linda. We appreciate your kind words of recognition too. The more we talk about service, the more we want to do it!

  11. Shelli Horger says:

    David,
    I really enjoyed your recent post about service to others. I am glad to read that the boys are participating regularly in the community. When Wilson was there I always felt that service to others was an area that was lacking at the school. Thanks for making this happen! Although we only had the chance to meet you twice before Wilson graduated, I knew that you would be a huge asset to CCBS. Thank you for all that you do!
    Shelli Horger
    P.S. You will be pleased to know that not only is Wilson doing well in school but he is also doing his part in our community. He is currently the assistant coach for a basketball team made up of kids in kindergarten and first grade who practice during the week and have “games” on Saturday. You have not lived until you have seen a basketball game involving kids so young! He also volunteers for Angel Food Ministry at a local church. A a matter of fact, he was there this morning! You might want to check into this organization and see if there is a group in the area that participates. It is a once a month activity that the boys would enjoy. I know that they would love to have your group of young me to help!